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An Assortment of (mainly) BDSM and Kink Questions: Master Zeghuul’s collared slave Nah Nah

By 2019-04-11Uncategorized

Each week (hopefully), Collared Girls will be highlighting a person or persons within the BDSM/kink community. Each have been kind enough to answer a series of questions describing their lifestyle, offering advice to others, and just having some fun (FYI: The answer to #8 should ALWAYS be “crunchy”). We know each of us have a different vantage point and view of our Dominance and submissiveness. We want to know more. By knowing more, we learn more. And isn’t our lifestyle, in all its variations, about learning and guiding and growing in order to be better people, more open and honest and happier? We are all slightly different in our practices and seeing and reading and hearing what others in our community do often helps inform our own practices. This week, we are happy to post the answers to our questions from… Master Zeghuul’s collared slave Nah Nah:

Ten or So Questions for Dominants:

  • What type of submissive do you describe yourself as (slave, service, etc.)?

I am a slave to my Master. I thrive on service and structure. I don’t always like it when He asks me to do things, but I do them with as little fuss as I can manage because it is important to me to serve His needs, whatever they may be.

  • How would you describe being a submissive to the layperson?

I give up a few things like making decisions and plans, and in return I am given safety and freedom to just BE.

  • How’d you get started? Tell us about how you discovered your submissive persona?

It’s always been a part of me, but I started reading and researching 8 or so years ago. I wanted to find a name for the feeling of being helpless, controlled, taken… I took the time to learn what I wanted to gain from my submission. Still had no clue what I would actually gain though.

  • What is your favorite toy? Do you have a set of beloved go-to toys that you enjoy most of all? Would you share with us what they might be?

My favorite toy is whatever Zehguul uses on me. Lately, clothespins are my favorite. I used to be all about my hitachi and my glass dildo. After years of using only them, their use feels empty now that I have a warm body in bed with me. But toys are nice when we use them together.

  • What is the one thing that’s most misunderstood about our lifestyle?

The fact that the power comes from the right side of the slash.

  • Describe your relationship status (single, poly, married and poly, D/s only with no outside involvement, etc.):

I am poly with Zehguul, but He is my only romantic partner at this time. We live a 24/7 Master/slave dynamic.

  • Totally random: If you could be any other creature (besides human), what would it be and why?

An otter. First, the otter is my patronus. But they love water, they’re so graceful, and they make the cutest noises! And they hold hands when they sleep.

  • Another totally random question: Crunchy or smooth peanut butter, and why?

Crunchy on PBJ sandwiches, but if I’m dipping my apples or celery, smooth. Because texture.

  • What’s been you BEST/most rewarding experience in the lifestyle?

I would say our collaring ceremony. We don’t have a ton of local kink friends, but the ones we do have came to our ceremony and wished us well. The outpouring of love from our Twitter family was incredibly moving.

  • Conversely, what’s been your worst experience?

Z and I were doing a fire scene one of the first times we went to a local dungeon. It was a few hours after a fire workshop. Someone from the class interrupted our scene while Z had a torch going inches from my skin. It was scary and panic inducing.

  • What are your favorite sites? They don’t even need to be BDSM/kink related.

Honestly, Twitter is probably my favorite. A lot of my friends live there. 🙂

  • What advice do you have for newbies to the lifestyle? What do you recommend as the first step into BDSM people take? Why?

Newbies should definitely go to munches and meet people. Find a mentor if there’s something specific you’re into, but try to just take it all in. Don’t be afraid to ask questions (but DO NOT INTERRUPT A SCENE). Read blogs and books, listen to podcasts, get out there and have some fun!

 

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If you’re interested in participating in this series, or just writing some short content for us, please slide into my Twitter DMs (@IAmMissRuby) or email me at immissruby@gmail.com.  

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