An Assortment of (mainly) BDSM and Kink Questions: submissive amadeo

By 2019-02-13Uncategorized
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Each week (hopefully), Collared Girls will be highlighting a person or persons within the BDSM/kink community. Each have been kind enough to answer a series of questions describing their lifestyle, offering advice to others, and just having some fun (FYI: The answer to #8 should ALWAYS be “crunchy”).

We know each of us have a different vantage point and view of our Dominance and submissiveness. We want to know more. By knowing more, we learn more. And isn’t our lifestyle, in all its variations, about learning and guiding and growing in order to be better people, more open and honest and happier? We are all slightly different in our practices and seeing and reading and hearing what others in our community do often helps inform our own practices.

This week, we are happy to post the answers to our questions from… pup amadeo:

  • What type of submissive do you describe yourself as (slave, service, etc.)?

I am a service submissive to provide and fulfill my Mistress’s needs.

 

  • How would you describe being a submissive to the layperson?

To be very careful, a layperson does not have the capacity to understand the full D/s dynamic and I would explain that what a servant or butler does for their Master.

 

  • How’d you get started?

I started by shear fluke as a friend sent me to a massage parlour and asked for a happy ending (to which I dint know what that was) and the attendants came out the one I chose didn’t do massages she did kink.   

 

  • Tell us about how you discovered your submissive persona?

I always had a fantasy about bondage and in short my therapists explained it was my way to give up control. And the massage parlor attendant did just that tie me up, and I haven’t looked back since.

 

  • What is your favorite toy? Do you have a set of beloved go-to toys that you enjoy most of all? Would you share with us what they might be? What is the one thing that’s most misunderstood about our lifestyle?

I do not have anyone particular toy since I started my journey I have experienced well over 50 new kinks I enjoy impact, needles, bondage, CBT, waxing, etc.  I love the power exchange. The control over me and the rawness of power. The single tail People become judgmental due to the lack of understanding.

 

  • Describe your relationship status (single, poly, married and poly, D/s only with no outside involvement, etc.):

Poly/married, in a D/s relationship.

 

  • Totally random: If you could be any other creature (besides human), what would it be and why?

A bird, because of the feeling of freedom!!

 

  • Another totally random question: Crunchy or smooth peanut butter, and why?

Crunchy, something to chew on.

 

  • What’s been you BEST/most rewarding experience in the lifestyle?

The honour of being collared.

 

  • Conversely, what’s been your worst experience?

Losing my Collar or it being ended.

 

  • What are your favorite sites? They don’t even need to be BDSM/kink related.

Fetlife and Twitter.

 

  • What advice do you have for newbies to the lifestyle? What do you recommend as the first step into BDSM people take? Why?

First step is to dig into one self and discover a new world of possibilities!

 

Check out the other posts you may have missed:

If you’re interested in participating in this series, or just writing some short content for us, please slide into my Twitter DMs (@IAmMissRuby) or email me at [email protected]

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