An Assortment of (mainly) BDSM and Kink Questions: Master Zehguul

By 2019-04-09Uncategorized

Each week (hopefully), Collared Girls will be highlighting a person or persons within the BDSM/kink community. Each have been kind enough to answer a series of questions describing their lifestyle, offering advice to others, and just having some fun (FYI: The answer to #8 should ALWAYS be “crunchy”). We know each of us have a different vantage point and view of our Dominance and submissiveness. We want to know more. By knowing more, we learn more. And isn’t our lifestyle, in all its variations, about learning and guiding and growing in order to be better people, more open and honest and happier? We are all slightly different in our practices and seeing and reading and hearing what others in our community do often helps inform our own practices. This week, we are happy to post the answers to our questions from… Master Zehguul:

Ten or So Questions for Dominants:

What type of Dominant do you describe yourself as (Daddy/Mommy, Lifestyle, Financial, etc.)?

– Sadistic primal Dominant oriented switch Master

 

How would you describe being a Dominant to the layperson?

– The person in a power exchange dynamic whose leadership role is determined by the needs if the relationship and the submissive, operating under the authority of the submissive

 

How’d you get started? Tell us about how you discovered your dominant persona?

– DCC chat on mIRC on sexnet. Didn’t know what it was, thought it sick. That was 20 years ago. Now I live it.

 

What is your favorite toy? Do you have a set of beloved go-to toys that you enjoy most of all? Would you share with us what they might be?

– A few fave canes, one woven whip, and now, fire and knives

 

What is the one thing that’s most misunderstood about our lifestyle?

– The whole consent/abuse stuff

 

Describe your relationship status (single, poly, married and poly, D/s only with no outside involvement, etc.):

– Married poly; our house is my son, wife, slave gf, and I. It’s awesome af

 

Totally random: If you could be any other creature (besides human), what would it be and why?

– Felis concolor or a dragon

 

Another totally random question: Crunchy or smooth peanut butter, and why?

-Crunchy. Because crunchy.

 

What’s been you BEST/most rewarding experience in the lifestyle?

Marrying my first sub, then collaring my first real life slave, and having both. Every day is awesome af.

 

Conversely, what’s been your worst experience?

– Early on when my Alitrix and I were on the board of W.H.I.P., the drama and soap opera of people stuff. That sucked.

 

What are your favorite sites? They don’t even need to be BDSM/kink related.

Don’t have any. I use Twitter a lot, but deactivated my FB.

 

What advice do you have for newbies to the lifestyle? What do you recommend as the first step into BDSM people take? Why?

– There are plenty of books available to newbies. Read up, learn about consent, autonomy, and where your rights and expectations are or should be. And start going to munches.

There’s nothin to it but to do it.

 

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If you’re interested in participating in this series, or just writing some short content for us, please slide into my Twitter DMs (@IAmMissRuby) or email me at [email protected]  

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